How to Forget a Guy in 10 days

As far as some people in my life knew about my 'relationship' with this guy, I finally left him after a year and 5 months, FINALLEH!! But, still, we can't be too arrogant about that. Maybe someday in the future, he will come back into my life. We planned, but Allah's plan is the greatest. Remember?

So, just like how I mentioned above, to forget is not an easy task. Took a lot of courage and tears. LOL. For me, I tried so hard and I'm still at the first phase. I don't know how many phase because I made the phase myself. Hahahaha.

As a Muslim, the first thing to do is put our trust in Allah 1,000,000% !! There's no one can help us at this rate where one could possibly gone insane, crazy and anything you can come up with. I've been into a denial phase where I wished I never knew him. The most extreme I've ever been was I wished I had amnesia. That's insane right? Yup. Been there, done that.

So, let's go check the list on how to forget a guy you wished you never knew, a guy who shouldn't exist in your life, a guy who broke your heart into pieces, a guy that you are not meant to be:

1. Put your trust in Allah: Allah is the Maker of our heart. He is the One who will heal us. InsyaAllah. You'll see the miracle. Believe in Him that one day, your love will come and save you. That will be the best moment in your life.
2. Doa (pray): Ask Allah to heal your heart, mend the broken heart. Ask for forgiveness because we are a sinner. This heart which beating every second doesn't deserve to beat for a creation. It must beat for the Creator. 
3. Never stalk your ex-man: Never ever ever stalk his social network account. NEVER EVER! Because, you heart will ache by just seeing him smiling happily and licking ice cream with his cat. DON'T DO THAT! 
4. Hide or throw away all the things he gave you: All the things he gave you hold a million of memories which could make you burst into tears in a second, which is not worth it. You have to be strong to face the days. It is not worth where you have to give up and go back to him, begging him to stay by your side. Back to square one ladies? Nuh uh!! Hide it if you think it is worth to keep and important to you. Or you can give it away to anyone else. The meanest thing to do, THROW IT AWAY!!
5. Avoid places you've been with him: Throughout your relationship, for a couple of months, try to avoid the places you had dinner together, cinema you've been to, National Mosque where you guys park the car (HAHAHA) or anywhere that could make you sad and remember all the memories where you were together.
6. Delete his phone number, email, facebook account: As for phone number, it will hurt you even more when you saw his face with the new one on his Whatsapp account, or FB account. LOL. So, delete it. It is way better and will make you happier. Trust me!
7. Watch funny movies: Laugh your ass off!! You are happy without him. Watch Running Man. That's what I do.
8. Go out with friends and surround yourself with people: This is to avoid you from being lonely. Being alone by yourself is not good at all. This situation will make your memories with him come flooding. Then, you'll miss him. He doesn't deserve you. And you are deserve to be happy. Make yourself busy!
9. Smile: Smile is Sadaqah. The more you smile, the more Allah gives you thing you are deserve. Don't make your life miserable. Even you feel miserable, smile!
10. Read Quran: This is the important one. Read Quran and understand it. You'll find the answer. You will. And by reading it, your heart will be at ease. There's no one or nothing could be close to us, only Holy Quran. Allah talk to you through Quran. If you don't read and understand it, how will you find the answer? How you feel at ease? 

That's all. I think. If I have more, I will update it for sure. InsyaAllah.

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